The Blog

Who Are You Becoming?

Who Are You Becoming?

Searching for a photo on my cell phone camera took me scrolling through pics from early 2020. I was stunned by what I saw.  Yes, photos of family, with friends, and of events but what made me pause was seeing photos of me and the woman I...

read more
To My White Friends

To My White Friends

I’VE BEEN ASKED BY WHITE FRIENDS WHAT THEY CAN DO. First of all, thank you for asking.  I’ll start by saying that I can only speak for myself, and not for other people of color. This post is not intended to be political or critical. I’ll...

read more
It’s a Puzzling Time

It’s a Puzzling Time

What’s with puzzles?  Well, they’re puzzling, right?  They test us and stretch our minds in challenging ways. Some consider them fun. Not me. I’ve never been a puzzle person.  But I’m married to one and with the extra time at home during...

read more

If you haven’t already done so, I invite you to sign up for my
FREE 5-Day Confidence Makeover,where you learn 5 Habits of Confident Women (that YOU can do too!)

If you haven’t already done so,
I invite you to sign up for my 
FREE 5-Day Confidence Makeover,
where you learn
5 Habits of Confident Women
(that YOU can do too!)

... more from the Blog ...

… more from the Blog …

That Loving Feeling

That Loving Feeling

Awww . . . February.  The month of Valentine’s Day, the month of love.  Earlier this month, we went out of our way to express love to the people in our lives.  The gifts, the flowers, the treats, the notes, and the cards.  And to so...

read more
Word of the Year? Not for Me!

Word of the Year? Not for Me!

It’s become the new year trend for people to pick a word of the year. I used to do that too, but I decided not to this year. I found that as I grew and evolved through the year, my word became almost trivial. Gradually losing its...

read more
You Don’t Have to Be Thankful

You Don’t Have to Be Thankful

You don’t have to be thankful.  No need to push the gratitude thing.  Sometimes it doesn’t just flow, and that’s okay. Telling yourself that you “should be” grateful can be more defeating than uplifting. There are no rules to gratitude,...

read more
Perfection Procrastination

Perfection Procrastination

Perfectly perfect perfection.  Doesn’t that sound wonderful?  Not! What’s sad is about a decade ago that’s what I was working towards.  I honestly believed that if I just waited for the “right” time, for when I had enough money, for the...

read more
The Reality of Confidence

The Reality of Confidence

What do you assume when you look at a woman who you think is confident?  You might think she has it all together, never questions herself, doesn’t worry about what others think, or has perfect relationships.  Because, after all, isn’t...

read more
5 Clues You’re A Confident Woman

5 Clues You’re A Confident Woman

You may view confidence as this far off, elusive trait that seems beyond your grasp, difficult to maintain on a day-to-day basis, or something you’re always trying to build because it’s not quite strong enough.  But you may be surprised...

read more